The concept of spells and putting spells on people is interesting and, I admit, somewhat compelling. It gives us the feeling that we can control the unknown and seemingly uncontrollable future. I think that there is a bit of chance in this life but there is also a bit of personal control and motivation that can help make the bumps smoother and the opportunities greater. Let's call it Mind Over Matter.
Here is a "Do It Yourself" spell that might help clear the cobwebs, focus our actions and create more good energy to flow in the right direction. This spell allows us to let go of anything thing that have been holding us back from success whether its love, hurt, fears or stress.
1. Get a white candle that is between 5 and 8 inches long.
2. Light the candle, hold it and close your eyes.
3. Deeply and methodically concentrate on the issue that is most frustrating you.
4. Go through the steps of what started it, how it has evolved and where the issue rests today. Take as long as you need but no less than 5 minutes.
5. Then tell yoursef that this issue is extinguished and blow out the candle.
6. Bury the used candle in the ground.
7. Step on the dirt.