The concept of spells and putting spells on people is interesting and, I admit, somewhat compelling. It gives us the feeling that we can control the unknown and seemingly uncontrollable future. I think that there is a bit of chance in this life but there is also personal control and motivation that can help make the bumps smoother and the opportunities greater. Let's call it Mind Over Matter.
"Mind over Matter". We have heard that we can change our fortune and chances for success if we could only change our outlook and perception. This may be true for certain things. So why not use this handy little ritual to help you reconnect psychicly, spiritually or telepathically with a lost love or someone from your past who has meant something special to you.
1. Light a white candle. (Or if you are near a candle store, buy a male - if you are seeking to reconnect with a man - or female - if you want to connect to a woman - shaped candle)
2. Face the candle and briefly examine the flame.
3. Close your eyes and imagine the flame burning bright and strong.
4. Think of the person who you wish to connect to and say their name seven times.
5. Then imagine yourself talking to them again.
6. Make a wish that you will see or hear from them again soon.
7. Blow out the candle.