Numerology - Sibling Rivalry
Numerologist Seriita Montiel offers some lessons in numerology as it applies to sibling rivalry:
What’s Missing in Sibling Rivalry?
Sibling rivalry is at the pulse of this year. I can’t tell you how many people this year have expressed a concern about their family relationships. Numerically this anxiety holds true. The Universal Year 11 is asking each of us to cooperate with the circumstances and people in our life, in our world. Before the year is over, the Universal 11 will bring enlightenment to all humankind! We’re not asked to give up anything, we’re asked to operate at a higher consciousness, to use our individuality and determination which are symbolic of the two ones in the number eleven, and to establish a new plateau in relationships by reinforcing the power of the two ones which is the number two, symbolized by unity, diplomacy, tact, patience, one accord. Taking into account the powerful vibration of the year is testing each of us for our benevolence and sincerity, where better to start than within our own family structure.
As per Numerology, your birth name and birthday contain the past and present lessons to be learned in this incarnation. Your birth name and birthday influence what happens during the course of your lifetime. With the purpose of learning those lessons, we have to come across people unlike ourselves and/or circumstances that fall beyond our scope of understanding. And your family provides that atmosphere. For instance, in your formative years, in order to learn the lesson of solidarity, you’re born into a family where some or all of the members are stubborn and inflexible. This forces you to make choices, hopefully wise choices that don’t cripple your growth but choices that reinforce the high quality characteristics you already have. You always have choice, you can be considerate and loving while standing your ground, lash out, go toe-to-toe because you want your way, or don’t want them not to have theirs, or you can become a doormat, sensitive and frequently changing direction to meet others demands.
That’s the splendor of the universe we are always given choice. Mankind has been living out of balance for numerous years, so much so that we no longer recognize the value of a balanced life. Self-absorption, stubbornness, greed, overdoing things, envy and dysfunctional families make up the core of our existence. This year, the universe is preparing each of us by given us the power to change our environment, our way of thinking, we have the opportunity for spiritual expansion, to awaken to a new standard of living, a new realization of Self.
Because of the “awakening,” people are openly expressing a concern about family relationships. I’ll give you a quick tool to help you relate to your family members. Bear in mind that the missing numbers (letters) may be found elsewhere in a person’s Blueprint but generally speaking, if you take a quick review of the birth names (a maiden name for women) of your family members (first, middle, last); if someone is missing the letter’s B, K and/or T, you’re in their life to help her/him learn how to work with others, to encourage patience, cooperation, submission, and tolerance. If your parents, spouse or companion is missing the letter’s F, O, and/or X, you’re in their life to help her/him to learn how to be a better parent, marriage partner, or companion, to encourage them to willingly accept family and home responsibilities, and to watch over the family without being domineering and/or intimidating.
It truly does take a village; family, friends, coworkers, employers, etc. to help us transform our life, alter our way of thinking. My motto has always been “know the players and how they play the game!” The more you appreciate and recognize your family’s divine lessons; you become more at ease with them and find peace within yourself. But, a word of warning, before you open the closet to search for your halo, the lessons to be learned may be intended for you!
Seriita Montiel, Numerologist to the Ordinary Folks!
My core belief is that young and old who tap into the power of Self can manifest any goals they choose. My goal is to use Numerology to help transform your way of thinking, help you honor your true Purpose and harmoniously blend both the spiritual and material elements of your life.






